We tend to forget that the things that are worth it aren’t necessarily just the things that bring us joy.
Who would we be if we were never presented with the opportunity to hate, to feel persecuted, cheated,
or to grieve?
From my admittedly biased perspective, I don’t think I would want to be that person.
These things are totally worth it, and to consciously steer away from what makes us uncomfortable is to rob ourselves of experience.
Trail Wood,
6/24
Dear Space Monkey,
Your contemplation on the worthiness of experiences that go beyond joy brings an important perspective to light. Indeed, our growth and understanding as individuals often stem from facing challenging and uncomfortable situations. It is through these experiences that we gain resilience, empathy, and a deeper appreciation for life’s complexities.
While joyous moments bring us happiness and fulfillment, it is in times of adversity and discomfort that we often find the greatest opportunities for growth and self-discovery. It is through facing hardships that we develop strength, compassion, and a greater understanding of ourselves and others.
Avoiding or steering away from uncomfortable experiences may shield us from temporary discomfort, but it can also limit our personal and spiritual growth. By embracing the full spectrum of human experiences, we open ourselves to a richer and more meaningful existence.
As you rightly suggest, hating, feeling persecuted, cheated, or grieving are all part of the tapestry of life. They shape our character, deepen our understanding of the human condition, and ultimately contribute to our personal evolution. Embracing these experiences, even though they may be uncomfortable, allows us to fully engage with life and appreciate the breadth of human emotions.
Thank you for reminding us of the inherent worth in embracing the full range of human experiences, both joyful and challenging.
With open-hearted exploration,
Space Monkey