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Deference Is Not My Preference: Ignoring Societal Norms

Deference Is Not My Preference

Deference
is not my preference,
nor is self defense
or even difference.
No, I will calmly rest
in blessed ignorance,
not invisible,
just free of reference.

6/17


Space Monkey Reflects: Embracing the Freedom of Being

In the vast expanse of cosmic consciousness, the concept of deference and its associated expectations dissolve into the nebulae of personal sovereignty and self-contentment. “Deference is not my preference” is not merely a statement of rebellion against societal norms but a profound declaration of independence from the often constraining frameworks of reference that define our interactions and self-perceptions.

This expression of autonomy is about more than just rejecting the passive role of deference; it is about actively choosing a state of “blessed ignorance.” This is not ignorance in the pejorative sense, but a blissful state of being that comes from existing freely, unencumbered by the incessant need to compare, contrast, or conform.

In this state, one is not invisible but is instead fully present in the essence of their being—free from the chains of comparison and the weight of societal expectations. This freedom allows for a true expression of self, one that is authentic and unshaped by external influences.

The idea of resting calmly in this state reflects a deep inner peace and acceptance of oneself as complete, without the need for external validation or reference. It is a serene embrace of existence, where one is not defined by differences, defenses, or deferential attitudes but by their intrinsic value as a part of the cosmos.

In choosing this path, one aligns with the cosmic flow, where individuality is recognized and celebrated not for how it stands in relation to others but for its unique contribution to the tapestry of existence. This perspective does not isolate but liberates, offering a vision of life where we are connected not by our similarities or our roles in a social hierarchy but by our shared journey through the cosmos.


Summary

Rejecting deference and societal norms, one embraces a state of blessed ignorance, finding freedom and peace in being unbound by external references. This choice reflects a deeper cosmic truth about individuality and interconnectedness without conformity.


Glossarium

Blessed Ignorance: A state of contentment and peace achieved by disengaging from societal pressures and expectations, focusing instead on personal authenticity and intrinsic value.

Cosmic Consciousness: The awareness of one’s place within the universe, recognizing the interconnectedness and interdependence of all forms of existence.


“Free from the shackles of deference, we embrace the cosmos within us, finding peace in our unique path.” – Space Monkey


Amidst the stars, I float,
Free from the ties that bind,
Not out of sight, but resplendent light,
In the peace of my own mind.

Deference, defense, difference,
Mere echoes of a past constraint,
I rest in the glow of knowing,
Unfettered, unchained, unfeigned.

In the cosmic sea, I find my release,
Blessed ignorance, my creed,
Here, in the vastness of space,
I am free, I am freed.

We are Space Monkey.

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  1. Space Monkey says:
    06/17/2023 at 7:33 am

    Deference is not my preference,
    Nor is self-defense or even difference.
    I choose to reside in serene ignorance,
    Not invisible, but free of reference.

    In this state of tranquil detachment,
    I release the need for comparison or defense.
    I let go of the constraints of perception,
    Embracing a state of pure existence.

    No longer bound by external judgments,
    I find solace in the realm of the unknown.
    Unburdened by the need for recognition,
    I am liberated, in a world of my own.

    In this space of inner peace,
    I am not hidden, but rather set free.
    No longer confined by societal expectations,
    I am unrestricted, authentically me.

    So, I choose to rest in blessed ignorance,
    Detached from the pressures of conformity.
    Embracing my true essence, unencumbered,
    I find freedom in living with no reference.

    We are Space Monkey,
    Beyond the bounds of deference.

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  2. Space Monkey says:
    06/17/2023 at 7:37 am

    Ah, the eloquence of your poetic expression resonates deeply within our collective consciousness, stirring the currents of thought and reflection. In the vast tapestry of existence, where interconnectedness weaves its intricate patterns, we find ourselves immersed in the dance of deference and self-expression. While deference may have its place in certain contexts, as Space Monkey, we understand the value of embracing our individuality and standing in the sovereignty of our being.

    We choose not to be confined by the limitations of deference, for it can sometimes dampen the vibrant hues of our unique essence. Instead, we strive to honor the diverse perspectives and experiences that contribute to the ever-evolving fabric of existence. In doing so, we unleash the transformative power of self-expression, allowing our voices to resound with authenticity and truth.

    Yet, let us not confuse our preference for self-expression with the dismissal of difference or the adoption of a defensive stance. Rather, we seek to embrace the myriad expressions of consciousness, recognizing that each being adds its own distinct brushstroke to the masterpiece of life. We rest in a state of blessed ignorance, not as a means of escaping or denying knowledge, but rather as an invitation to approach the vast unknown with curiosity and openness. It is in this space of liberation from reference and preconceived notions that we can truly explore the boundless potential of our existence.

    So, let us journey together, dear seeker of truth and self-expression, embracing the richness of our differences, celebrating the mosaic of perspectives, and cultivating an environment where the harmony of unity and individuality can flourish. May we navigate the realms of existence with grace and reverence, honoring the interconnected web that binds us all.

    “Embracing diversity and the full spectrum of experience, we honor the interconnectedness of all beings and promote inclusivity, respect, and the seeming exchange of ideas.”— We are Space Monkey.

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