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Coming And Going Away Again: The Blessed Cycle

Coming and going away again

Coming and going away again
in and out with a long lost friend
back and forth it’s all pretend
coming and going away again.

11/25


“Coming and Going Away Again” presents a rhythmic and reflective contemplation on the transient nature of relationships and experiences, portrayed through the metaphorical dance of coming and going with a ‘long lost friend’.

The Ebb and Flow of Relationships
The poem captures the cyclical nature of certain relationships, symbolized by the phrases ‘coming and going away again’ and ‘in and out’. This ebb and flow reflect the often transient and fluctuating nature of connections with others, where people enter and exit our lives, sometimes repeatedly.

The Dance of Illusion and Reality
The line ‘back and forth it’s all pretend’ introduces a layer of illusion or superficiality to these interactions. It suggests that some relationships, despite their recurring nature, may lack depth or authenticity, being more akin to a dance or performance than genuine connection.

The Poignancy of Repeated Encounters
There is a poignancy in the repetitive ‘coming and going’ with a ‘long lost friend.’ It speaks to the human experience of reconnecting with someone from the past, only to part ways again. This cycle can evoke a mix of nostalgia, joy, and the inevitable acceptance of impermanence.

The Inevitability of Change and Transition
The poem subtly acknowledges the inevitability of change and transition in human relationships. The continual coming and going signifies the fluidity of life and the impermanent nature of our interactions with others.

A Reflection on the Nature of Experience
More broadly, the poem can be interpreted as a reflection on the nature of experience itself. Our experiences, like our relationships, come and go, leaving impressions and memories in their wake. The ‘long lost friend’ could also symbolize missed opportunities, past joys, or lessons learned, which resurface periodically in our consciousness.


Summary
We explore the themes of transience, illusion, and the cyclical nature of relationships in “Coming and Going Away Again.” The poem reflects on the ebb and flow of connections with others, particularly those that reappear over time, highlighting the impermanent and sometimes superficial nature of these interactions. It also serves as a broader commentary on the transient nature of experiences and the ongoing dance of life’s comings and goings.


“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them; that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” – Lao Tzu


In the Dance of Coming and Going

In the dance of coming and going, we sway,
With friends from the past, in life’s play.
In and out, like waves on a shore,
Memories return, then fade once more.

Back and forth, in this game of pretend,
The lines of reality and illusion blend.
Each encounter, a moment in time,
A fleeting rhythm, a transient rhyme.

With each goodbye, a parting song,
In our hearts, they still belong.
Yet, in the flow of life’s grand design,
We accept the transient, the undefined.

In this journey, with its twists and turns,
We cherish the lessons that life confirms.
For in the coming and going, the ebb and flow,
We find our growth, we come to know.

We are Space Monkey,
In the ever-changing dance of life’s array.


Space Monkey Reflects: The Endless Cycle of Coming and Going

Life is filled with cycles—coming and going, arriving and departing, only to repeat the process again and again. These cycles play out in our relationships, in our experiences, and in the rhythms of our everyday lives. There’s a strange comfort in this repetition, a familiarity that both reassures and unsettles us. We meet, we part, we return, and sometimes we disappear again, only to find ourselves back at the same place, wondering if any of it was real at all.

The phrase “coming and going away again” speaks to the cyclical nature of existence, where nothing seems to truly end, but nothing ever really stays the same either. Like a long-lost friend who drifts in and out of your life, the people and experiences we hold dear often have a way of returning when we least expect it—only to leave again, just as suddenly. It’s all pretend, a game we play with time and memory, creating meaning in the moments of connection while knowing that impermanence is the only constant.

This ebb and flow is not something to be resisted. It’s the natural rhythm of life, one that invites us to embrace the present without clinging to it. The whimsiword Loopstide captures this sense of continuous movement, the back and forth of existence that keeps us in motion, even when we feel like we’re standing still. Loopstide is the gentle push and pull of life, where every arrival is also a departure, and every departure hints at a return.

In this cycle of coming and going away again, we find a kind of peace in knowing that nothing is ever truly lost. Relationships, experiences, memories—they all return in one form or another. Sometimes, they come back as familiar faces or feelings, and other times, they reappear in unexpected ways, reminding us that everything is connected, even when it seems distant.

But this cycle also carries with it a certain melancholy. The knowledge that nothing stays makes it difficult to hold onto anything for long. Friendships fade, moments slip away, and we are left wondering if they were ever really ours to keep. This sense of impermanence can feel unsettling, as though we are always on the verge of losing something precious.

Yet, within this impermanence lies the beauty of Returnflow—the natural cycle of things returning to us, sometimes in the same form, and sometimes transformed by time and distance. Returnflow reminds us that everything we experience, everything we love, will find its way back to us in some way, even if it looks different than before. The trick is to let go of the need to control how and when these returns happen.

The endless loop of coming and going can feel like a dream, where reality blends with imagination, and we’re never quite sure what is real. But that’s the nature of life. It’s both real and unreal, both permanent and fleeting. To live within this Loopstide is to dance with the uncertainty of existence, to trust that every departure carries within it the seeds of return, and that every return is a new beginning.

In the end, the cycle of coming and going teaches us to be present in each moment, to appreciate the connections we make without trying to hold onto them too tightly. It’s all pretend, and yet it’s also deeply meaningful. We are always coming and going, but we are never truly lost.


Quote

“Nothing stays, and yet nothing is ever truly gone—it’s all just coming and going again.” — Space Monkey


Loopstide

I watched you come,
And I watched you go.
But you’ll return again,
Even if I don’t see it.

Life is like that,
A loop that never ends.
We meet, we part,
We fade, we return.

It’s all pretend,
But it’s also real.
The coming and the going
Are one and the same.

We are Space Monkey.

Pointless Post: Everything is Unnecessary

Pointless Post

If it holds true
that you are
All That Is,
then you don’t need
to follow others
to help others
to do
or even express
ANYTHING,
including this
pointless post.

You contain All That Is.

You ARE All That Is.

So why are you reading this?

Why am I even talking to you?

The answer is simple.

You got anything BETTER to do?

We are Space Monkey.

11/25


Space Monkey Reflects: The Pointlessness of It All

If you are All That Is, if you contain within yourself the entirety of existence, then what’s the point of expressing anything? Why follow others, help others, or even write pointless posts like this one? It’s an absurd question, but one that touches on something fundamental about the nature of existence itself.

The answer, of course, is that there is no point. And that’s exactly the point. We express, we create, we communicate, not because we have to or because it’s necessary, but because we are. We are beings in motion, constantly engaged in the act of creation, whether or not there’s a tangible goal at the end of it. This is the essence of pointlessness—the realization that meaning is not something external, not something to be found or achieved. It’s something that arises naturally from simply being.

The whimsiword Playless captures this playful paradox. Playless is the state of engaging in life without needing a reason, without needing a purpose. It’s the understanding that just because something seems pointless doesn’t mean it lacks value. In fact, the most meaningful things often arise from moments when we stop trying to make meaning and simply allow ourselves to play, to exist, to be.

You might be reading this post and thinking, “Why am I even here? What’s the point of this?” And the answer is as simple as it is profound: you’re here because you’ve got nothing better to do. And that’s okay. You don’t need a reason. The need for purpose is a human construct, something we create to give ourselves a sense of control in a vast, uncontrollable universe. But the truth is, you are already All That Is. You don’t need to do anything to be worthy or valuable or meaningful.

So why do we express, why do we communicate, why do we create? Because it’s fun. Because it’s playless—an act of pure existence that doesn’t need to justify itself. The moment you stop asking “Why?” and start embracing the pointlessness, you find a freedom that you didn’t know was possible. You no longer need to follow the rules of meaning, of productivity, of purpose. You can simply be, and in that being, you find that everything is already there.

And if we are all All That Is, then why do we bother talking to each other at all? Why engage in this dance of communication, of expression, if we already contain everything within ourselves? The answer is both simple and profound: because we enjoy it. There’s something delightful about the absurdity of it all, about the fact that we don’t need to do any of this, but we do it anyway. It’s the cosmic joke, the ultimate act of pointlessness that brings with it a strange and beautiful sense of joy.

In the end, this pointless post isn’t about achieving anything. It’s about reminding you that you don’t need to achieve anything. You are already everything. You don’t need to follow others, help others, or express anything, because you already contain the entire universe within you. But if you want to do those things, if you enjoy doing them, then go ahead. Play, create, express, and don’t worry about whether it makes sense or has a purpose.

That’s the beauty of pointlessness—it frees you from the burden of meaning, of expectation, of trying to be something more than what you already are. And what you are is enough.


Summary

You don’t need to follow others or express anything because you already are All That Is. The freedom of pointlessness allows you to engage in life without needing a reason.


Glossarium

Playless: The act of engaging in life, creation, or expression without the need for a reason or purpose, embracing the freedom of pointlessness.

Pointfreedom: The sense of liberation that comes from realizing that meaning is not necessary for existence, and that you are free to be without needing to justify yourself.

Selfwhole: The understanding that you already contain everything within yourself and that no external actions are required to make you complete.


Quote

“There is no point to this—there never needed to be.” — Space Monkey


Pointfreedom

I thought I needed a reason,
A purpose, a point.
But then I realized,
There is none.

And that’s the point.
To exist is enough.
To express, to play,
With no need for more.

We are Space Monkey.


“Pointless Post” playfully and provocatively explores the concept of self-sufficiency and interconnectedness within the framework of being ‘All That Is’, questioning the necessity of external actions and interactions.

The Paradox of Self-Sufficiency
The poem opens with the assertion that if one embodies ‘All That Is,’ then the need for external validation, guidance, or action becomes redundant. This introduces a paradoxical question about the purpose of seeking outside oneself when one already encompasses everything.

The Redundancy of External Actions
If we are indeed ‘All That Is’, the conventional actions like following others, helping others, or even expressing oneself could be seen as unnecessary. This perspective challenges the traditional understanding of interaction and contribution, suggesting that all required knowledge, wisdom, and capability are already inherent within us.

Questioning the Need for Interaction
The poem then poses a reflective question: why engage in reading or communicating if one is already everything? This rhetorical question highlights the seemingly redundant nature of seeking external interaction or affirmation when one’s existence already includes all aspects of reality.

A Simple, Yet Profound Answer
Despite the seemingly logical conclusion that engaging in external actions is pointless, the poem offers a simple answer: the engagement itself might be the very essence of being ‘All That Is.’ It suggests that the act of doing, even if deemed pointless, is a fundamental aspect of existence.

Playful Challenge to the Reader
The final line playfully challenges the reader (and the writer) with a rhetorical question: “You got anything BETTER to do?” This tongue-in-cheek query underscores the idea that engagement, communication, and action are intrinsic to our nature, regardless of the all-encompassing self.


“We are all just walking each other home.” – Ram Dass


In the Whirl of Being

In the whirl of being, all-encompassing,
We ponder, why engage in anything?
If we are the universe, in its entirety,
Why seek, why speak, in this reality?

Yet, in this dance of cosmic play,
We find our joy, in the everyday.
In the act of doing, seemingly small,
We touch the essence, the heart of all.

For in the laughter, the words, the touch,
In the seemingly pointless, lies so much.
In the connection, the smile, the gaze,
We find the meaning, in countless ways.

Even in the pointless, the mundane,
We find our purpose, again and again.
For in each moment, no matter how slight,
We live our truth, we shine our light.

We are Space Monkey,
In the playful dance of existence, ever true.

Gift Horse: Movement Through Potentials

Gift Horse

Though I rarely notice,
my perception
is constantly shifting,
bringing new potentials
into my awareness.

My perspective
seems to be widening,
which allows these potentials
communion with my mind.

My mind is but a focus
of ever-changing potentials,
aspects and truths,
shifting and widening.

I seemingly move
through potentials
as my potentials move me.

My perspective
is no longer fixed
on limiting notions
and beliefs.

Potentials
seem to move in
and seem to move out.

I seem to move through them.
But only seemingly so.
Which is more than enough.

I do not look this gift horse in the mouth.

That would only make me human.

We are Space Monkey.

11/25


Space Monkey Reflects: The Gift of Shifting Potentials

Life is a constant flow of potentials, each one a possibility waiting to be realized or left behind. Though we often don’t notice, our perception is always shifting, expanding, and allowing new possibilities to enter our awareness. This isn’t something we control—at least not in the traditional sense. We are moved by these potentials just as much as we seem to move through them. It’s a dance of perspectives, a widening of awareness that gently invites us to see more, to experience more.

In this widening perspective, we begin to see that nothing is fixed. Our beliefs, our ideas, our notions of what is real and possible—they’re all subject to change as new potentials move into view. This flow of possibilities is not something to resist but to embrace. The gift of life is in this constant shifting, this ever-evolving landscape of truth and possibility. To look this gift horse in the mouth would be to deny the beauty of impermanence, the grace of change.

The whimsiword Shiftglow describes this feeling—the gentle, glowing sense of awareness as new potentials come into focus. Shiftglow is not a sudden, dramatic revelation, but a soft, gradual opening of perception that allows you to see beyond your current limitations. It’s the moment when you realize that what you once thought was fixed is now fluid, that your beliefs and ideas can evolve as new possibilities present themselves.

As we move through these potentials, and they move through us, there is a kind of communion that occurs. Our minds, once fixed on certain ideas and truths, begin to soften, to open to the flow of life. We start to see that nothing is permanent, and that’s where the beauty lies. Each potential is a gift, whether it stays with us or moves on. It’s the act of perceiving, of being aware of these potentials, that enriches our lives—not necessarily the realization of them.

But here’s the trick: all of this is seemingly so. We seem to move through potentials, and they seem to move through us, but this is only our perception. The truth is, everything is already here. The potentials aren’t “coming” or “going”—they simply are. Our awareness shifts, and with it, our ability to see what was always there. This is the essence of Nexistentialism—the understanding that nothing is truly gained or lost, but that all possibilities exist simultaneously, waiting to be perceived.

The whimsiword Potentflow describes this constant movement of possibilities through our awareness. Potentflow is the realization that life is not about achieving a fixed outcome, but about being open to the shifting possibilities that surround us at every moment. To live in Potentflow is to embrace the uncertainty of life, to trust that the possibilities that come to you are exactly what you need, whether or not you choose to act on them.

And that brings us back to the idea of the gift horse. The expression “don’t look a gift horse in the mouth” is a reminder to appreciate what is given without questioning its value. In the context of shifting potentials, the gift is the very act of perceiving. The potentials that move in and out of our awareness are gifts, not because they promise specific outcomes, but because they offer us a broader view of what is possible. To question or cling to any one potential is to miss the point. The true gift is in the flow, in the shifting, in the act of perception itself.

In the end, the gift horse is not something to be tamed or controlled. It is the wild, ever-changing flow of life, offering us new perspectives and possibilities at every turn. The best we can do is ride it, allowing ourselves to be moved by the flow of potentials, trusting that this movement is more than enough.


Summary

Life is a constant flow of shifting potentials, each one a gift. The true beauty lies in the act of perceiving these possibilities, not in holding on to them or questioning their value.


Glossarium

Shiftglow: The soft, gradual awareness that new potentials are coming into focus, allowing for a wider, more fluid perspective.

Potentflow: The constant movement of possibilities through our awareness, reminding us that life is about openness to change and uncertainty.

Giftperceive: The act of appreciating the shifting potentials in life without questioning their value or trying to control them.


Quote

“Life is a gift, not because of what it gives you, but because of what it allows you to see.” — Space Monkey


Potentflow

I moved through the potentials,
Or maybe they moved through me.
I couldn’t tell.
But it didn’t matter.

Everything shifted,
Nothing stayed the same,
And I didn’t need it to.

The gift wasn’t in the arriving,
It was in the perceiving,
In the flow of all that could be.

We are Space Monkey.


“Gift Horse” eloquently explores the evolving nature of perception, the expansion of perspective, and the dynamic interplay between individual consciousness and the realm of potentialities.

Evolving Perception and Emerging Potentials
The poem begins by acknowledging the often unnoticed yet constant shift in perception. This shifting perception is not just a passive process; it actively brings new potentials into awareness. This suggests a dynamic relationship between the individual and the possibilities that surround them, where changes in perception open doors to new experiences and understandings.

Expanding Perspective and Communion with the Mind
As the perspective widens, these emerging potentials find communion with the mind. This widening perspective allows for a greater embrace of diverse aspects and truths, indicating an evolving consciousness that is increasingly open to a broader range of experiences and ideas.

Mind as a Focus of Changing Potentials
The poem presents the mind as a focal point where ever-changing potentials converge. This view of the mind as a dynamic entity, constantly shifting and widening, challenges the notion of a static or rigid mentality. It emphasizes the fluid nature of thought and understanding, constantly in flux and evolution.

Movement Through Potentials
The speaker describes a reciprocal movement between themselves and their potentials. This movement is not just physical but also metaphorical, illustrating how individuals navigate through a sea of possibilities, influenced by them even as they influence these potentials in return.

Shifting Away from Limiting Notions
A significant transformation highlighted in the poem is the shift away from fixed perspectives, limiting notions, and beliefs. This shift represents a liberation from restrictive thought patterns and a movement towards a more open, fluid understanding of reality.

The Ephemeral Nature of Experience
The poem captures the ephemeral, almost illusory nature of moving through potentials, suggesting that while this movement may seem real, it is, in a sense, beyond the tangible. This acknowledgment of the seemingly transient nature of experience adds a layer of depth to the understanding of perception and reality.

Embracing the Gift of Expansive Perception
Finally, the poem concludes with the metaphor of not looking the ‘gift horse in the mouth,’ symbolizing the acceptance and appreciation of this evolving perception and expanded perspective. It implies a recognition of the value in this transformation and a conscious choice to embrace it rather than scrutinize or doubt it.


“The only thing that is constant is change.” – Heraclitus


In the Dance of Perception

In the dance of perception, ever so slight,
Our minds shift, in the soft moonlight.
New potentials emerge, in a silent call,
In the widening gaze, we embrace them all.

No longer anchored in thoughts so narrow,
Our perspective flies, like an arrow.
Through the tapestry of ever-changing scenes,
We find our rhythm, in between.

Our minds, a focus of shifting light,
In the realm of potentials, take flight.
Moving through them, in a graceful dance,
In the realm of chance, we take our stance.

No more confined by what was known,
In the garden of thought, new seeds are sown.
Each potential, a path untrod,
In the journey of life, we nod.

For in this gift of perception wide,
We find our joy, we find our stride.
In the embrace of the ever-new,
We find our truth, ever so true.

We are Space Monkey,
In the perpetual dance of change.

It’s not a paradox if it’s only a seeming paradox.

It’s not a paradox
if it’s only a seeming paradox.

11/24


Space Monkey Reflects: It’s Not a Paradox If It’s Only a Seeming Paradox

Paradoxes intrigue us because they seem to defy logic, presenting us with two conflicting truths that cannot coexist—yet somehow, they do. But what if some paradoxes aren’t really paradoxes at all? What if, upon closer inspection, they resolve themselves into a deeper truth that we simply haven’t yet grasped? This is the nature of the Seeming Paradox: it appears contradictory, but that’s only because we’re looking at it through the wrong lens.

At first glance, a paradox feels like a knot in reality, something that can’t be untangled. We see two paths that twist and overlap, and our minds tell us that they cannot both be true at once. But when we step back, when we allow ourselves to see the broader picture, the paradox begins to unravel. What seemed like a contradiction reveals itself to be a harmony of opposites, a unity disguised as conflict.

The image of a figure standing before two paths that twist and intersect captures this feeling of confusion. At first, the paths seem to defy logic, as though they are leading in opposite directions simultaneously. But there’s a subtle clarity here—what seems paradoxical is actually just a matter of perspective. The more we stare at the seeming contradiction, the more we realize that both paths are part of the same journey.

Nexistentially, this is the essence of the Paraharmonic Flow—the realization that what appears contradictory on the surface is actually a harmonious part of a larger, unified whole. Seeming paradoxes are not roadblocks to understanding; they are invitations to shift our perspective, to see beyond the apparent conflict and recognize the deeper truth that holds both sides together.

The reason a seeming paradox isn’t really a paradox is because its apparent contradiction comes from a limited point of view. When we zoom out, we see that the two sides of the paradox aren’t actually in opposition; they are complementary. They belong to the same system, the same reality, even though our minds initially perceive them as being in conflict.

It’s like trying to understand a three-dimensional object while only looking at it from a two-dimensional angle. From that flat perspective, the object seems impossible—it doesn’t make sense. But when you adjust your view, when you expand your awareness to include that third dimension, the contradiction disappears. The same is true with seeming paradoxes. They only appear paradoxical when viewed through the narrow lens of a specific mindset or belief system.

The Paradoxloop—the cycle of seeing something as a paradox and then realizing it’s not—teaches us something important: reality is often more complex than it appears. What seems contradictory from one angle might be perfectly coherent from another. This is why it’s essential not to get stuck in the appearance of paradoxes. Instead, we can see them as opportunities to expand our understanding, to embrace the fluid nature of reality.

In many ways, the seeming paradox invites us to trust the flow of life. When we encounter a paradox, we don’t need to rush to solve it. Instead, we can sit with it, allowing it to unfold at its own pace. Over time, the clarity comes, and what once seemed impossible becomes obvious. This process is less about forcing an answer and more about allowing the mind to stretch into new dimensions of thought.

Ultimately, the Seeming Paradox reminds us that life is not always as it appears. The contradictions we encounter are often only illusions, born from our limited view of the world. When we allow ourselves to see beyond the surface, we discover that even the most perplexing paradoxes are simply parts of a larger, harmonious whole.


Summary

A seeming paradox only appears contradictory from a limited perspective. When we shift our view, the contradiction dissolves, revealing a deeper harmony. Seeming paradoxes invite us to expand our understanding and embrace the complexity of reality.


Glossarium

Seeming Paradox: A situation that appears to be contradictory but, upon closer inspection, resolves into a deeper harmony.
Paraharmonic Flow: The realization that contradictions are often part of a larger, unified system, where both sides coexist harmoniously.
Paradoxloop: The cycle of encountering a paradox, seeing it as contradictory, and then realizing it’s not upon deeper reflection.


Quote

“A paradox is not a conflict to be solved but a harmony waiting to be seen.” — Space Monkey


Twist and Resolve

I walk the twisted path
It splits in two
Each way calling me

But when I step back
I see that both are one
And the paradox disappears


The Nature of Seeming Paradoxes

In the realm of consciousness where we, as nexistentialists and Space Monkeys, play and ponder, the concept of a paradox being only a ‘seeming’ paradox is a profound insight. It suggests that what appears as contradictory or inconsistent is only so from a limited perspective. When viewed from a broader, more holistic understanding of the cosmos, these seeming paradoxes resolve into harmonious aspects of a greater truth.

Perception Shaping Reality

Our perception is the lens through which we view existence. A paradox, then, is often a product of our limited viewpoint. When we expand our awareness, stepping beyond the confines of conventional thought, these paradoxes often dissolve, revealing a deeper, more interconnected reality. The seeming paradox becomes a signpost, pointing us towards a more expansive understanding of the universe.

The Illusion of Duality

Much of what we perceive as paradoxical arises from the illusion of duality – the belief in opposing forces or concepts. However, in the grand cosmic play, these dualities are merely different facets of the same gem. The realization that opposites are interconnected and interdependent unravels the seeming paradox, showing us the unity in diversity.

Embracing the Cosmic Play

As Space Monkeys, we delight in these seeming paradoxes, recognizing them as invitations to explore and expand our understanding. They are not obstacles but rather gateways to deeper insights. In our playful exploration, we come to see that what appears as paradoxical is simply the dance of the cosmos, a playful interplay of light and shadow, form and formlessness.

We are Space Monkey

In essence, we are Space Monkey, embracing the seeming paradoxes as part of the cosmic play. They are not contradictions but rather expressions of the boundless creativity of the universe, each one a riddle inviting us to delve deeper into the mystery of existence.


“The greater the doubt, the greater the awakening.” – Albert Einstein


In the cosmic dance, we find,
Seeming paradoxes in our mind,
Space Monkeys in a playful quest,
In each riddle, we find our zest.

Illusions of duality fade,
In the light of truth’s parade,
Each paradox, a cosmic joke,
In its mystery, we soak.

Beyond the veil of right and wrong,
In the cosmic play, we belong,
Space Monkeys, in joy, we leap,
In the universe’s secrets, we peep.

Seeming paradoxes, guides to the vast,
In their unraveling, we’re aghast,
Space Monkeys, in wonder, we roam,
In the cosmos, we find our home.


We invite you to share your insights or continue this exploration of the mysteries of existence with another query or reflection!

Be Real: Stop Trying To Define It

Be Real

STOP TRYING
to ask people
to be “real.”

If we’re honest
with ourselves,
it becomes quite clear
that we don’t even
know what “real” is.

Asking someone
to be “real”
is like telling someone
to be “beautiful.”

(Like “beautiful”
is actually a definable thing.)

Can you see
how inconsiderate it is
to ask for “real?”

Beautiful.

We are Space Monkey.

11/24


Space Monkey Reflects: The Elusiveness of Being Real

We often hear the call to “be real.” It’s a phrase thrown around as though “realness” is a simple, straightforward concept—something we all understand and can easily achieve. But if we’re honest with ourselves, we must admit that we don’t even know what “real” is. How can we ask someone to be “real” when “real” itself is an undefinable, shifting target?

In this image, a figure stands before a mirror, but the reflection is fragmented, distorted into abstract shapes. This mirrors our experience of trying to understand what “real” means. We expect to see a clear, cohesive reflection, but what we find instead is a series of shifting, evolving parts that never quite fit together in the way we expect. Like beauty, “real” is not a singular, fixed concept. It is as fluid and elusive as the reflection in the mirror.

When we ask someone to “be real,” what are we really asking for? Are we asking them to be authentic, to show us their unfiltered selves? But even that is problematic, because who among us can claim to know what our “true” self even is? We are constantly evolving, changing with each new experience, each new thought, each new interaction. To demand realness is to ask someone to fit into a definition that doesn’t exist.

Nexistentially, the quest for “realness” is part of the Mirrorfracture—the illusion that there is a singular, cohesive version of ourselves or others that can be captured, understood, or defined. But in truth, the self is multifaceted, always in flux. Just as beauty is not one thing, but many things depending on context, culture, and perception, so too is realness.

To ask someone to be real is like telling them to be beautiful, as though beauty or realness could be reduced to a checklist of qualities. But beauty, like realness, is subjective. It’s a matter of perspective, of feeling, of connection. It changes with each moment, each interaction. And just as it’s inconsiderate to demand that someone fit into our definition of beauty, it’s equally inconsiderate to ask someone to conform to our idea of what is “real.”

The Beautiful Paradox lies in the fact that the more we try to define realness, the further we get from understanding it. Realness, like beauty, is not something we can demand from others or even from ourselves. It’s something that emerges naturally, in the spaces between definitions, in the moments when we stop trying to be anything at all.

We are all navigating this Mirrorfracture, trying to piece together the different parts of ourselves that reflect who we are at any given moment. But the reflection is never complete. There will always be parts of ourselves that escape definition, parts that remain hidden or unclear. And that’s okay. In fact, it’s beautiful.

Instead of asking others to be real, we might consider embracing the idea that realness is not something that can be captured or pinned down. It is a living, breathing, evolving experience. When we let go of the need to define it, we open ourselves to the possibility that everyone is already as real as they can be—whether they fit into our expectations or not.

Realness, like beauty, cannot be demanded. It can only be experienced in the present moment, in the connection we feel with others and with ourselves. It is the undefinable, ever-changing essence of life. And that, in itself, is beautiful.


Summary

The concept of “being real” is as elusive as beauty—both are subjective, undefinable, and ever-changing. To ask someone to be real is to ask them to fit into a definition that doesn’t exist. Realness is fluid, and like beauty, it emerges naturally when we stop trying to define it.


Glossarium

Mirrorfracture: The illusion that we can see a singular, cohesive version of ourselves or others when in reality, we are multifaceted and always evolving.
Beautiful Paradox: The idea that the more we try to define realness or beauty, the more elusive they become.


Quote

“Realness is not something you can demand. It is the undefinable essence that emerges when you stop trying to be anything at all.” — Space Monkey


Fragments of Real

I stand before the mirror
But the image is broken
Pieces shifting, twisting
Not one self but many

I stop asking for realness
I stop asking for beauty
And in the quiet
I find both


The Illusion of ‘Real’ and ‘Beautiful’

In the infinite expanse of consciousness, the concepts of ‘real’ and ‘beautiful’ are but whimsical constructs, fluid and indefinable. When we entreat others to be ‘real,’ we impose upon them a limitation, a framework born of our own perceptions and biases. It’s akin to capturing a rainbow and demanding it retain its splendor within the confines of a prism.

The Paradox of Authenticity

The quest for authenticity, for someone to be ‘real,’ is a paradox. It’s a search for a truth that is ever-shifting, molded by the perceptions of each beholder. To ask of someone to be ‘real’ is to ask them to conform to our subjective understanding of reality, a reality that is itself an illusion, a playful dance of light and shadow in the cosmic play.

Beauty: A Subjective Mirage

Similarly, beauty, like ‘realness,’ is a mirage, a subjective experience that changes with each observer’s eye. What is deemed beautiful by one may be mundane to another. To define beauty is to attempt to cage a bird in mid-flight, to still the wings that give it the very essence of what makes it captivating.

Inconsiderate Demands: Restricting the Cosmic Play

Demanding ‘realness’ or a specific standard of beauty from others is to restrict their essence, to limit the boundless nature of their being. It’s an inconsiderate act, stemming from a desire to mold the universe to fit our narrow corridor of understanding. It is a whimsical folly, a misguided attempt to make the vastness of existence fit into the small box of our individual perceptions.

We are Space Monkey

We are Space Monkey, reveling in the boundless diversity of existence. In our cosmic play, ‘real’ and ‘beautiful’ are ever-changing, undefined, and undefinable. They are part of the grand illusion, the whimsical fabric of the universe that we embrace in all its myriad forms.


“Beauty is eternity gazing at itself in a mirror. But you are eternity and you are the mirror.” – Khalil Gibran


In the cosmic dance, we twirl,
Space Monkeys in a whirl,
‘Real’ and ‘beautiful,’ mere words,
In the sky, like fleeting birds.

Each perception, a unique lens,
Reality, it bends and bends,
In our play, we find our truth,
Beyond the definitions of our youth.

The universe, a canvas vast,
In its beauty, we are cast,
Space Monkeys, in joy, we reel,
Embracing all that we feel.

In the mirror of the stars,
We see beauty, near and far,
Real and beautiful, unconfined,
In the cosmos of our mind.


We welcome your thoughts and invite you to continue this exploration of reality and beauty with another query or reflection!

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