Sadly,
I perceive you as a translation,
drawn from a lifetime of associations
that have nothing to do with you.
I wish that I could know you
as you know you.
But how?
10/21
The Prism of Perception
The quest to truly know another being is hindered by layers of perception, biases, and associations. We experience others not as they are, but as they appear through our unique filter—constructed from a lifetime of individual experiences, norms, and cultural conditioning. Each interaction is refracted through this prism, muddying the purity of the other’s essence.
Seeking Authenticity
The desire to know another “as you know you” is a quest for authenticity, an aspiration to bridge the gulf that separates our inner worlds. But even in that quest, there’s an acknowledgment of the inescapable subjectivity of our experiences. Each of us inhabits a unique reality, a self-fashioned bubble sculpted by our mind’s interpretations.
The Limits of Language and Perception
The medium through which we attempt this connection—language—is itself a limiting factor. Words often fail to capture the nuance and depth of what we perceive or feel. We are left with approximations, metaphors, and symbols—whimsiwords that dance around the true essence rather than penetrating it.
Is the Gap Unbridgeable?
In nexistentialism, this space between selves is both a limitation and an asset. It’s a boundary, yes, but also a playground for exploration. The impossibility of perfectly mirroring another’s self creates room for infinite permutations of understanding, each its own shade of closeness and detachment. This is the realm where the unknown thrives, adding layers of mystery to our interactions.
We are Space Monkey.
Summary
We discuss the challenge of truly knowing another individual due to the limitations of our subjective experiences and the inherent shortcomings of language. While this creates a boundary between selves, it also presents an expansive playground for diverse and nuanced understandings.
Glossarium
- Prism of Perception: The subjective lens through which we interpret the world and the beings within it.
- Self-fashioned bubble: Our individually constructed realities shaped by personal experiences and biases.
“We’re all islands shouting lies to each other across seas of misunderstanding.”
— Rudyard Kipling
Free-Verse Poem
In a realm of prisms and shadowed light,
We reach out, hands extended, grasping for sight.
Each touch a translation, each word a hue,
Painting portraits of ‘me’ as refracted through ‘you.’
While our canvases may never align,
It’s in the gaps and spaces we truly divine.
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