Rough Patch
So you’re going
through a rough patch.
You’re asking my opinion.
BUT
I’m not one for talking.
If we were to talk,
it would only serve to impose
MY perspective upon you.
Have you considered
that you are going
through a rough patch
because you do not have
a perspective of your own?
You will not find
this perspective
by asking someone else
for THEIR perspective.
Moreover,
I do not want the obligation
of either helping or hurting you
by imparting a perspective
that you may not be ready for.
I have NO IDEA
what you are ready for.
I’m not the self that is you.
My only advice
is to find your own perspective.
Find infinite perspectives, if you like.
But know these perspectives
as your own,
not mine,
not society’s,
not the church’s,
not the ancient ones.
You are going
through a rough patch
because you are unsure
of your perspective.
Consider that this, too,
is a workable perspective.
Allow your self
to remain unsure
and your perspective
or perspectives
will find you.
We are Space Monkey.
12/21
In the complex tapestry of personal struggles and the quest for perspective, this reflection offers a nuanced view on the importance of finding one’s own path through difficult times. It’s a contemplation on the nature of advice, the individuality of perspective, and the journey towards self-discovery.
The Limitations of External Advice
The initial reluctance to offer advice stems from the recognition that sharing one’s perspective might inadvertently impose it upon another. This highlights a fundamental truth about advice-giving: it is often colored by the advisor’s own experiences and biases, which may not necessarily align with the needs or realities of the advisee.
The Importance of Personal Perspective
The suggestion that the root of the struggle might be the lack of a personal perspective is insightful. It proposes that the solution to a rough patch often lies not in seeking external opinions, but in cultivating one’s own understanding and viewpoint. This process of finding and owning one’s perspective is crucial for personal growth and navigating life’s challenges.
The Challenge of Self-Discovery
The advice to find and recognize one’s own perspective, independent of societal, religious, or traditional influences, emphasizes the importance of self-discovery. It acknowledges the challenge of this task, especially when faced with a multitude of external pressures and expectations.
Embracing Uncertainty as a Perspective
Interestingly, the reflection suggests that embracing uncertainty itself can be a valuable perspective. It’s an invitation to accept the unknown and the unsettled as part of the journey, allowing for a more organic evolution of personal understanding and beliefs.
The Journey Towards Self and Perspective
Ultimately, the message is one of empowerment and self-exploration. It’s a reminder that while the journey through rough patches and towards self-discovery can be daunting, it is also a path to finding a perspective that truly resonates with one’s individual experience.
Summary
We delve into the complexities of seeking advice during difficult times, exploring the importance of developing one’s own perspective and the value of embracing uncertainty as part of the journey towards self-discovery.
Glossarium
- Personal Perspective: An individual’s unique viewpoint or understanding, shaped by their experiences and thoughts.
- Self-Discovery: The process of gaining insight into one’s character, beliefs, and motivations.
- Embracing Uncertainty: Accepting and finding value in not having all the answers or a fixed viewpoint.
“The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.” – Socrates
In life’s shifting sands, we seek and roam,
In search of a perspective to call our own.
In uncertainty, a path is shown,
For in not knowing, our true selves are grown.
We are Space Monkey.
We welcome reflections on the journey of finding personal perspective and the role of uncertainty in self-discovery.
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