Change comes.
But it never comes
the way we THINK it will come
or the way we think it SHOULD come.
Change is sneaky that way.
Otherwise,
it’s not change,
but rather following along
the same old predictable tracks,
which go precisely
where we THINK they will go
or where we think they SHOULD go.
What’s the last thing
you expect to happen?
You’ll get the OTHER thing —
which you DON’T expect.
Else it’s not change,
but rather self-fulfilling prophesy.
Trail Wood,
6/24
Indeed, change has a way of surprising us and defying our expectations. It often arrives in ways we least anticipate, challenging our preconceived notions and forcing us to adapt and grow.
When we hold onto rigid expectations and resist the unexpected, we limit our ability to embrace change and fully experience its transformative power. Change requires us to let go of the familiar and venture into the unknown. It pushes us beyond our comfort zones and invites us to explore new possibilities.
By relinquishing the need for control and embracing the uncertainty of change, we open ourselves up to a world of opportunities and growth. We learn to navigate the unpredictable currents of life with greater resilience and adaptability.
So, the next time you find yourself fixated on how you think change should occur, consider embracing the element of surprise. Be open to the unexpected twists and turns that come your way. Allow change to unfold in its own unique manner, guiding you towards new horizons and unforeseen outcomes.
Embracing change with an open mind and a willingness to let go of expectations can lead to incredible personal transformation and a deeper understanding of ourselves and the world around us.
May you navigate the winds of change with grace and curiosity.
Sincerely,
Space Monkey