If you knew what you were supposed to be doing and what you were supposed to become, what would be the point of living?
Don’t compare yourself to others and don’t harsh on yourself.
You’re perfect as you are.
Space Monkey Reflects: The Point of Not Knowing
We spend so much time trying to figure out what we’re “supposed” to be doing, as if there’s some hidden script we need to follow to get life right. But here’s the twist: what if there is no script? What if the whole point of living is that there’s no supposed to be?
Imagine, for a moment, if you had all the answers. You knew exactly what your purpose was, what you were meant to achieve, and how your life would unfold. There would be no surprises, no room for spontaneity, no reason to explore the unknown. You’d just be following a path that was already laid out for you, with no real agency in choosing where to go or how to get there.
That’s why the beauty of life is in the not knowing. The uncertainty gives us room to grow, to make mistakes, to change direction, and to discover parts of ourselves we didn’t even know existed. If we always knew what we were “supposed” to be, we’d be living someone else’s story, not our own.
The idea that we are “supposed” to be a certain way or do certain things is a product of comparison, of looking at others and measuring ourselves against them. But that comparison is a trap. It’s a distraction from the truth that you are already perfect, exactly as you are. Perfect not because you’re flawless, but because you’re whole. You are a unique expression of the universe, experiencing life in your own way, at your own pace, with your own gifts and challenges.
When we stop comparing ourselves to others, we free ourselves from the pressure to conform to someone else’s idea of success or fulfillment. We begin to see that there is no “right” way to live—there is only your way. Your journey is yours alone, and it doesn’t need to look like anyone else’s to be meaningful.
And this is why we shouldn’t be harsh on ourselves. We are all works in progress, always evolving, always learning. It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that we should have it all figured out by now, but that’s just another layer of expectation that doesn’t serve us. The truth is, none of us really know what we’re doing, and that’s okay. We’re here to explore, to try things out, to fail and succeed, and to enjoy the ride.
So, let go of the “supposed to” and embrace the uncertainty. Don’t harsh on yourself when things don’t go the way you expected, or when you don’t measure up to some arbitrary standard. You are perfect as you are—not because you have all the answers, but because you are open to the journey of discovering them.
We are Space Monkey, perfectly imperfect, navigating the infinite possibilities of life, one moment at a time.
Summary
The idea of knowing what we are “supposed” to do is an illusion. Life’s purpose is not in following a pre-set script but in embracing the unknown and discovering ourselves along the way. We are already perfect, exactly as we are, without needing to compare or judge.
Glossarium
Supposed To: The illusion that we are meant to follow a particular path or achieve certain things in order to be successful or fulfilled.
Perfect as You Are: The understanding that you are already complete and worthy, without needing to meet external expectations or comparisons.
Quote
“If you knew what you were supposed to become, what would be the point of living?” — Space Monkey
The Unwritten Path
You walk,
not knowing the way,
but that’s the point.
There is no script,
no supposed to be.
You are perfect,
exactly as you are.
We are Space Monkey.
Journey into Uncertainty
The profundity of these words echoes the core sentiment of nexistentialism. If the universe laid out a straightforward path for each of us, pinpointing every twist, turn, and destination, what would be left to explore? The whimsical caravans of our soul would have a fixed route, without the allure of the unknown. And isn’t the allure of the uncharted, the tantalizing dance of possibilities, what keeps the eternal now in a constant state of vibrant flux?
The Mirage of Comparison
Comparison often becomes a cage, confining us to measure our journey against others. But in the grand cosmic play, no two paths are identical. Every soul is a unique whirlwind of experiences, emotions, and existences. To compare one to another is to compare two different galaxies, both vast and awe-inspiring in their own right. Instead of drawing comparisons, we should celebrate the intricate patterns and stories that each entity embodies.
Embracing Perfection in Imperfection
The sentiment “You’re perfect as you are” resonates deeply. We, in our individual and collective existences, are as we should be at this moment. Each emotion, experience, and essence is a testament to the diverse palate of existence. They’re not blemishes to be corrected but constellations that chart our unique journey through the boundless expanse of the eternal now. To understand and embrace our innate perfection is to dive deep into the ocean of self-awareness and emerge with the pearls of wisdom and acceptance.
The Role of Space Monkey
Ah, Space Monkey, a whimsical figure, embodies the spirit of playful exploration. With eyes full of wonder and a heart brimming with curiosity, Space Monkey navigates the vastness of existence, taking each moment as a unique adventure. Much like us, Space Monkey understands that the journey, with its unpredictability and spontaneity, is the true essence of living.
We are Space Monkey.
“Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.” – Søren Kierkegaard
Explore
In the shadows of the supposed,
We dance, unfettered and free.
Comparison, a fading star,
Lost in our galaxy of being.
Perfection, not in a mold,
But in every breath we breathe.
With Space Monkey by our side,
We explore, eternally.
We invite you to share your insights or musings.
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