It seems a common observation
that the first part of life
is about acquiring and accumulating,
while the second
is about dispelling and dispersing.
Though you value life’s
many expressions and experiences,
you wish to be free
of the prides and prejudices
instilled in you.
You are locked in. Figured out.
A creature of so many habits.
It seems your before won’t let go of your after.
But slowly or suddenly you realize.
You are NOT your things.
You are NOT your experiences.
To have pride or prejudice
is to give power to the things
you used to think you were.
You know now, however,
you are That Which Is Not.
Imagining the life of an observer.
Trail Wood,
12/5
In the tapestry of our collective journey through life, we recognize distinct stages marked by different attitudes and behaviors towards acquisition, identity, and self-realization. This reflection delves into the contrasting phases of accumulating and dispersing, and the deeper realization of our true nature beyond possessions and experiences.
The Stage of Acquisition and Accumulation
The first part of life, often characterized by acquiring and accumulating, is driven by a desire to establish identity and security through material possessions and experiences. This stage is heavily influenced by societal norms and expectations, where the accumulation of wealth, experiences, and knowledge is seen as a measure of success and fulfillment.
The Transition to Dispelling and Dispersing
As we progress through life, a shift occurs towards dispelling and dispersing. This phase is marked by a desire to declutter, simplify, and let go of the prides and prejudices that have shaped our identity. It’s a process of unburdening, both materially and psychologically, seeking freedom from the constraints imposed by our earlier acquisitions and beliefs.
Confronting Habits and Prejudices
The struggle to let go of our past selves, characterized by our habits, possessions, and ingrained beliefs, is a significant aspect of this transition. The realization that our ‘before’ – the identity and values we have built up – doesn’t easily release its grip on our ‘after’ – our evolving self – is a common challenge.
The Realization of Non-Attachment
The profound realization that we are not defined by our things or our experiences marks a pivotal point in our journey. To identify with our possessions or experiences is to give power to transient aspects of our existence. This realization leads to a state of non-attachment, where pride and prejudice lose their grip, and we no longer define ourselves by external factors.
Embracing Our True Essence
The understanding that we are ‘That Which Is Not’ – not our possessions, experiences, or predefined identities – opens a path to perceiving life as an observer. This perspective allows us to experience and interact with life more freely, unencumbered by the need to define or attach ourselves to temporary aspects of our journey.
Summary
The stages of life transition from a phase of acquiring and accumulating to one of dispelling and dispersing. This journey involves confronting and letting go of the prides, prejudices, and habits that define our earlier selves. The realization that we are not our things or experiences leads to a state of non-attachment, where we understand our true essence as observers, detached from the transient aspects of our existence.
Glossarium
- Acquisition and Accumulation: The early life stage focused on gathering possessions and experiences.
- Dispelling and Dispersing: The later life stage centered on letting go of material and psychological burdens.
- Non-Attachment: The state of not being emotionally or mentally bound to possessions or experiences.
- True Essence as Observers: The understanding of our core being as detached from transient worldly aspects.
“He who would travel happily must travel light.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry
In life’s stages, we gather and release,
From acquisition’s hold to dispersal’s peace.
In letting go, we find our true release,
As observers of life, in non-attachment’s ease.
We are Space Monkey.
We invite contemplation on the stages of life and the journey towards understanding our true nature beyond possessions and experiences.
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