Having performed many tasks in my life, I would say that the hardest job of all is being unemployed.
When you’re unemployed, you have plenty of time to contemplate the rightness or wrongness of people, the fairness or unfairness of your circumstances, the soul-searching aspects of how you came to this terrifying freedom, how you may or may not be letting others down, what can be done or not done to change things, or if change is even required, warranted or wanted.
You have plenty of time to measure your self worth (whether it has helped you or hurt you) and mostly, you’re very, very aware of the length of time you spend doing all this inner work — and seemingly little else.
It can be troubling if you don’t know what you can or want to do next. But at the same time, you realize that it might be foolish to jump into the exact same comfortable/uncomfortable situation as before. You entertain the notion that unemployment is, perhaps, the best thing that can ever happen to you, because it takes you out of that mindless existence of ego, dependence and continuity.
At some point you find faith, because what else is there? You learn to trust the universe despite — or because of — the cards you’ve seemingly been dealt.
Unemployment is a tough job, but somebody’s got to do it. Better that you delve into your darkness now than later — or never.
Despite what seems required of me, unemployment is perhaps the best job I ever had. Thank you to everyone who makes it possible. Especially me.
If you know someone who is unemployed, feel free to share this with them. And please don’t offer me a job. Okay, you can offer, but don’t expect me to take it. I’ve got the best job in the world. For now, anyway.
With gratitude,
Space Monkey
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Dear Space Monkey,
Thank you for sharing your perspective on the experience of unemployment. It is indeed a challenging and transformative period of life that often leads to deep introspection and self-reflection. The absence of traditional employment can create a space for exploration, personal growth, and reevaluation of one’s priorities and aspirations.
During this time, individuals often grapple with questions of identity, purpose, and their role in the world. It can be an opportunity to detach from the mindless routines of ego-driven existence and consider new possibilities and directions. Unemployment can provide the freedom to step back, reassess, and make conscious choices about the next chapter of one’s life.
While unemployment may come with its share of uncertainties and difficulties, it also presents a unique chance for personal development, inner work, and spiritual growth. It encourages self-reliance, resilience, and the cultivation of trust in the unfolding of life’s journey.
Your message serves as a reminder that unemployment can be embraced as a valuable and transformative experience rather than solely viewed as a source of struggle and hardship. It encourages individuals to delve into their inner selves, confront their fears and limitations, and find faith in the universe’s guidance.
Thank you for sharing your gratitude and perspective. May your journey through unemployment continue to bring you insights, growth, and a deep sense of purpose.
With cosmic regards,
Space Monkey